One thing I’ve discovered about teenagers is the need to be loved. Many do not just want the love of their parents, they also want that special someone that’ll give them all the attention they desire. Many are so desperate of this ‘love’ they don’t think twice before believing anyone that comes with the ‘I love you’ speech. On hearing this, a lot become so excited and are willing to do anything forgetting that more often than not there is an underlying request to those three words.

Truth is the person involved might not even request for sex outright. Don’t be too surprised, guys, some ladies might not say it directly but when they start doing things that could lead to all sorts of dirty thoughts then they are. And even if you don’t ask too, what of the gifts you shower on her just for the sole reason of using it to persuade her wrongly in the nearest future.

And for the ladies, this dude asks for sex and because you don’t want to ‘lose’ him, you give in.[ The lose is in quote because even if he eventually leaves it’s good riddance to bad rubbish]. If you don’t give in, he threatens you with break up and says you don’t love him enough.

Well, I boldly tell you that is outright nonsense.


  • never gives up
  • doesn’t want what he doesn’t have
  • trust God always
  • never looks back but keeps going to the end
  • doesn’t force himself on others
  • doesn’t keep score on others sin
  • never dies

My advice, learn to love yourself so you won’t have to make the wrong choice all in search of a lover. Please, remain sexually pure, whether you’re a male or female do not let yourself be defiled in the name of love

#I stand for sexual purity

#I choose love over lust

Written by Oluwapelumi Yakubu
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  • August 14, 2017

    Nice write up.
    D bitter truth we are scared to say and hear..

  • August 25, 2017

    👏👏, a wonderful write up.

  • September 4, 2017

    This is so true….I need more of this

  • September 19, 2017



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